Excerpt from "Sex and the single black woman" in The Economist magazine
"The comedian Steve Harvey encourages women to "think like men" in order to get what they want. I personally don't find Harvey's approach to be appealing, since the last thing I'd want to date is a woman who thinks like a dude. Also, the implication that relationship warfare should be conquered with more warfare just leads to an even greater mess than the one we have today. Love should not be about war, winning or any kind of competition; that's why it's called "love" and not something else."
There is A LOT I can say about this but I will let your mind wrap around the author's thoughts and draw your own conclusions.