As I sit here and ponder on how I wasted time with men I thought a great relationship could develop from, I have just concluded that it wasn't a waste. I've learned what expectations are considered reasonable, much effort should be put in from each of us, and the willingness to want to know more about each other and grow together should be strong from both parties. If someone wants to make it work, they will make the effort. If they dont, they're not worth your time and energy, and certainly not your hard earned money.
I'm not taking any guy seriously right now and dating as many as I can handle, no longer focusing on just one.
This quote stood out in my mind:
"Knowing...who you are sets the stage for what you deserve. As tempting as it is to give in, hold steadfast to your beliefs and know that you are more than what someone else can define you as."
Read more: http://www.essence.com/2011/06/20/abstinence-no-sex-new-you/comments/2/#comments#ixzz1VVqwk7w0
Sidenote: Dating some other guys. The last guy I mentioned didn't work out and I don't care enough to evaluate the situation to conclude why. He hits me up randomly, but its over faster than it started #bye. Im open to new people, I'm just not going to sweat anything.
Cannot stop listening to Someone Like You by Adele, super talented.
And Beyonce's Countdown...loveee that song!